What Happens When BFFs Turn Into Foes?

Best friends are the best part of life. You trust them completely, more than you trust anybody else. You tell them the things that you can’t even tell your parents. They understand you more than even you have understood yourself. They know your strengths, they know your weaknesses. They know what makes you happy, and even what hurts you the most. They know all your embarrassing secrets, and your crushes. In short they know everything that your enemies shouldn’t know about. So what happens when this BFF of yours, becomes your foe?

Once a wise person stated that, your best friend can turn out to be your worst enemy. And this saying is so very true. At some point in life you must have felt betrayed by the people in your life. The outcome of betrayal is pain, irritation, frustration, anger and sometimes even vengeance. This is exactly how you will feel each time your best friend hurts you, once the two of you have turned enemies. The other point is that you have been so used to your best friend being nice to you. All of a sudden when they are being bad to you, you might find it really hard to digest it. Your best friend can betray you in so many ways. Even you can do the same. In fact this is the most common thing that people tend to do. Revenge may be sweet initially, but in time it starts getting painful for both. The person on whom revenge is being taken is obviously hurt, but the person who is taking the revenge also has to prepare themselves for a blow that will be coming soon. As a result either party is not happy.

So what do you do in such circumstances? How do you come out of this rabbit hole? Ignorance is bliss. It may be a cliche, but it works always. If your BFF is plotting revenge on you, it doesn’t mean that you have to plot revenge back on them. You can simply ignore them. Let me warn you, this is not going to be easy. But it surely is going to be worth it. In time, they will just get fed up and stop being bad. Your friendship with them has already been spoilt, don’t ruin it more by planting methods to make each others lives miserable. Just forgive them and let go. Who knows, maybe tomorrow your friendship might just start anew.

10 Ways To Make A Girl Feel Special

There must be more than a hundred ways to make a girl feel special. But, the ten ways mentioned below are the most tried and tested. Check them out and see if your guy practices any of them. If he doesn’t, just give some hints here and there and your job will be done.

1. Being romantic in public

One thing we girls absolutely love is affection in public. We girls love to flaunt our guy before our friends. Some flirting and mushiness will definitely make a girl smile. However, if a guy goes overboard with PDA (public displays of affection), then it’s a turn off.

2. Sharing interests

Our hobbies and passions may be far different from those of the guys, but if they try to take some interest in what we like, we will be delighted to show them around. Girls appreciate this kind of care and concern much more than expensive gifts.

3. Talking a lot and prodding about small things

Girls love to talk, whilst boys are more bottled up. We girls like it if our guy asks us how our day was and listens to all the stories that we have to tell. That is why, listening without interrupting is a very essential asset for a relationship.

4. Flattering with small gifts

Small tokens once in a while without any reason or rhyme will win a girl’s heart. A small necklace, a customized head scarf, a box of chocolates anything inexpensive but given with love and hugs weaves magic. Don’t you think, girls?

5. Verbalizing love and support

Girls look for romance and emotional support in verbal terms. A guy may be genuinely there for her, but until he verbalizes that, she won’t be satisfied.

6. Being eager to meet the family

Guys usually associate meeting the girl’s family as a sign of entering a long term commitment. But this is not the case always. Many a times, a girl just wants her guy to meet some of her family to flaunt him off. A guy is not supposed read too much between the lines when family comes into the picture. Just saying a ‘hello’ to them will make a girl extremely happy. Isn’t it, girls?

7. Leaving sweet nothings on voice messages

We girls would love it if our guys find creative ways of saying ‘Good Morning’. They don’t necessarily need to do something as typical as leaving flowers on the door. Leaving plenty of romantic voice messages on the phone and lots of surprises every morning is enough to please us.

8. Playing sports

We girls love the fact that our guys treat us as their equal. Even if we know that we’re going to be horrible at playing a baseball game with the him, we’d expect our guy to just let us play and let us win! This is one of the best ways to make us feel special.

9. Complimenting

We love it when our guys shower compliments not only when we are going out for a party and we’re looking nice, but also on our bad hair days. That is the key to making us feel special. Guys have to let us know that we look equally stunning in our night pajamas as much we do in our black evening gown.

10. Writing a poem

Even if they’re not very good at writing, if our guys pen down a few lines just for us and post that in our Facebook or Twitter page where everybody can see it, we’ll be on cloud nine. Even if the poem is naive and amateurish, we will love the fact that our ‘someone special’ wrote it for us. Don’t you agree upon that girls?

A personal touch and a hint of care and concern in whatever they do is all that we girls expect from guys. Most guys think that girls are a mystery and a complicated breed. In reality, it takes very little to make a girl feel special. Isn’t it?

10 Cute Gifts That Girls Would Love To Receive From Their Boyfriends

1. Puzzle Necklaces
Puzzle necklaces have two pendants each that are shaped like puzzle pieces. They are made in such a way that the message written on each of them can be read after they are joined. So one can be worn by you and the other is kept by your boyfriend. This is a romantic gift for girls to receive.

2. Perfumes
Every girl loves to have a nice, aromatic fragrance on herself. However, the choice of the fragrance can differ from person to person. Some of you might like a musky fragrance or some prefer the sweet aroma of fresh flowers. But perfumes are an excellent gift option for girls.

3. Spa treatments
Who doesn’t like to be pampered? Especially when it comes to girls, we surely love being taken care of. So a free spa treatment for you is the perfect gift if given after a tiring day at work or school. You feel so special and rejuvenated after a massage. Who wouldn’t love that feeling?

4. Jewelry
All girls like jewelry. It can be a cute little diamond pendant or a charms bracelet. It can also be a small heart shaped pendant with a gold neckpiece. Such gestures sure do speak a lot about the love and affection from the boyfriend.

5. Photo Frames
Photo frames are the perfect gift for sharing and keeping memories forever. An added bonus would be if it has a picture of you and your boyfriend.


6. Accessories
Accessories such as bags, sunglasses, watches, hats and the likes are such things which girls pine a lot for. Girls love to see that their boyfriends have gone to such great lengths to find the right gift for them.

7. Love poems
If the boyfriend writes a poem especially for his girl, won’t that melt her heart? If it is accompanied by his voice, that is if he writes and sings it too for his girl, then that is something a girl totally loves.

8. Flowers and chocolates
Flowers and chocolates are the tried and tested method for gifts. Although, this is an old fashioned gift but girls nevertheless love it. Girls also love it if their boyfriends find their favorite brand of chocolates and bring it for them.

9. Gift Baskets
A gift basket would be a very special gift to receive for a girl. Girls love if the basket has a few of their important things such as beauty products, accessories, chocolates and so on. It is a most lovely memorable gift for a girl.

10. Love Journals
Love journals are the most romantic gift for any girl. They are an epitome of the time they have spent with their boyfriends. It includes their photos, some anecdotes and personal quotes by their boyfriends.

6 Reasons Why Honesty Is The Best Policy

1. Key to trust

Honesty is the key to trust. When you do something with complete honesty, you give your heart and soul to it. This not only improves the quality of work that you do, but also enhances the bond that you share with people around. As times passes, people recognize you with your honesty and start trusting you. Gradually, they accept the fact that whatever you say or do is true, sincere and honest.

2. Keeps you in good books

As you start gaining people’s trust, you start getting a chance to be in the their good books. This policy especially helps in your workplace. If you are an honest person, you accept your success as well as failure in the right way. This will surely impress people around you and it will forever keep you in others’ good books.

3. Enhances your character

A well-known proverb sums up like this, reputation is made in a moment but character is built in a lifetime. Each and every incident of your life and each and every disposition of yours builds your character. If you add a layer of honesty to it, people will regard you as a person of high values, because honesty is the best of all virtues.

4. Makes people think highly of you
As mentioned earlier, honesty brings trust and enhances your moral character. As a result, people think highly of you. In other words, honesty lets you experience the respect that numerous people out there pine to receive.

5. Makes you responsible
When you adopt honesty as your policy, you tend to weigh your words and actions before you say or commit them. As a result, you become a responsible person who is concerned about their reputation and their values.

6. Gives you a peaceful sleep
Last but definitely not the least, honesty gives you a peaceful sleep. Can you imagine the plight of kleptomaniacs who steal a tiny thing from a shop just to satiate their impulse? They have sleepless nights due to the guilt feeling that they have. There are many people who engage in white lies but have a guilt conscious that doesn’t allow their mind to rest. In that case, honesty seems to be the best option because it not only gives you a clean conscience but also gives a stress free life, without any worries!

Learn Something...

A boy and a girl were playing together. The boy had a collection of marbles. The girl had some sweets with her. The boy told the girl that he will give her all his marbles in exchange for her sweets. The girl agreed. The boy kept the biggest and the most beautiful marble aside and gave the rest to the girl. The girl gave him all her sweets as she had promised. That night, the girl slept peacefully. But the boy couldn't sleep as he kept wondering if the girl had hidden some sweets from him the way he had hidden his best marble.

Moral of the story: I f you don't give your hundred percent in a relationship, you'll always keep doubting if the other person has given his/her hundred percent.. This is applicable for any relationship Give your hundred percent to everything you do and sleep peacefully